Breathe Less, Feel More

At first glance breathing seems so simple.

You Inhale.
You Exhale.
You Repeat.

But there is far more going and every breath we take can influencing our health either negatively or positively.

Breathing is subtle and very hard to really notice, but the way you breathe has a direct influence on how you feel, how you move, and how your body & mind function. Even a subtle change can create a massive shift.

The challenging part for many people is putting away any idea that we know how to breathe, you must unlearn what you know and approach with a beginners mind. Curiosity, awareness, perception, these are necessary skills that are further cultivated by practicing breathing,

Breath Is More Than Air

Breathing is not just about supplying the body with oxygen.

It’s an entire system that influences:

• Your physical body (structure and movement)

• Your Energy (life force ~prana)

• Your chemistry (oxygen and carbon dioxide balance balance Ph)

• Your nervous system (stress and regulation)

• Your Mind (focus and clarity)

Every breath reflects your current state.

And over time, the way you breathe can either support your system—or slowly work against it.

The Problem: Too Much Breathing

Most people don’t realize they are over-breathing. This is so hard to witness and change, but it starts with that, witnessing the pattern and knowing that it can be improved… indefinitely.

It is so easy to over breathe, it happens all day as many of our 20-30 thousand breaths re unconscious and part of an unconditioned habit. In fact, over breathing can be as simple as a yawn or any mouth breath.

It doesn’t necessarily mean faster or heavy breathing (which is absolutely overbreathing), it just means that we are taking more in than our metabolic demands, essentially— more volume than needed.

This can lead to:

• Increased tension & pain

• Reduced efficiency

• Nervous system imbalance

• Increased inflammation

More air is not always better.

In many cases, it’s the opposite.

The Goal: Less, But Better

Breath reeducation isn’t about forcing technique. I must strain this: You cannot force a change! Consistency, patience, persistence and positivity are the foundation which rests upon the bedrock of curiosity and awareness.

It’s about slowly refining the system.

Two key things begin to change (that are not nose breathing and diaphragmatic breathing):

• Your breathing becomes slower: the ideal rate is 6 breaths per minute

• Your breathing becomes quieter: ideally no sound or very minimal

Less effort.
Less excess.

More efficiency.

A Simple Way to Begin

One way to explore this is by slowing your breath down.

Try:

• Inhale for about 5–6 seconds

• Exhale for about 5–6 seconds

Keep it soft.
Keep it quiet.

Let the breath feel smooth, like a wave, gently transitioning between inhale and exhale and exhale into inhale.

Nothing forced, just rolling like a wave, smooth in and out, you’re letting go, and surrendering any bracing.

Bringing Awareness to the Breath

You can also introduce a light ujjayi breath—a gentle narrowing in the throat. It creates a light sound within and is usually practiced during the exhale, but can be done on the inhale as well.

This can:

• Slow the breath naturally

• Reduce excess air

• Improve awareness

• Help the diaphragm engage more effectively

Used lightly, it becomes a tool for sensing—not controlling.

Important tip with this practice: make your ujjayi breath subtle and quiet. No one around you should hear you, the sound is internal. It is also called “ocean’s breath” since the sound is like the smooth waves of the ocean on the beach. Imagine that while practicing your breathing and you will feel everything slowing down~ body, breath and mind.

Let the Body Follow

Instead of trying to control your breath, which, again, is very hard to do when your awareness is on your breathing, surrender to the breath…

Let your breath guide your body.

Let the ribs expand.
Let the body respond.

Allow the breath.

This creates change at a subtle level—what we call in yoga the pranamaya kosha.

And subtle changes, practiced consistently, create meaningful + lasting results.

Final Thought

Better breathing isn’t about doing more.

It’s about doing less—more intentionally.

Breathe less.
Feel more.

And always…

Stay consistent, patient, persistent and positive.

Breathing Basics: Why Less Is More

Breath Is Movement

Breath is not just something you do—it’s something that moves you.

Every movement in your body is influenced by your breathing. Your ribs expand, your spine responds, and your tissues shift with every inhale and exhale.

Breath is the body’s internal rhythm.

When breathing is restricted, movement becomes restricted.
When breathing is smooth, movement becomes fluid.

If you want to move better, it starts with how you breathe.

Breathing Is More Complex Than It Seems

At first glance, breathing looks simple: inhale, exhale, repeat.

But beneath that simplicity is a system influenced by:

• Biochemistry — how your body uses oxygen and carbon dioxide

• Biomechanics — how your ribs, diaphragm, and posture move

• Psychosocial factors — stress, habits, and environment

Every breath reflects your internal state.

And over time, inefficient breathing patterns can reinforce tension, fatigue, and dysregulation in the body.

The Problem: Too Much Breath

One of the most common issues is not a lack of breath…

…but too much of it.

Over-breathing—moving more air than your body needs—can lead to:

• Increased tension

• Reduced efficiency

• Nervous system imbalance

The solution isn’t to breathe bigger.

It’s to breathe more appropriately.

The Goal: Reduce Rate and Volume

Breath reeducation is not about forcing technique.

It’s about refining the system.

Two key variables:

• Respiration rate (how fast you breathe)

• Respiratory volume (how much air you move)

When both begin to decrease—naturally and without strain—the body becomes more efficient.

A Simple Exploration

Try this:

1. Count how many breaths you take in one minute

2. Then slow it down:

• Inhale for ~5.5 seconds

• Exhale for ~5.5 seconds

Don’t force the breath.

Let it become quieter.

Let it become smoother.

Let the Breath Move the Body

Instead of trying to control your breath…

Allow your breath to guide movement from within.

Let the ribs expand.
Let the body respond.

This creates change at a subtle level of the body—the soma.

And subtle changes, practiced consistently, create powerful results.

Final Thought

Better breathing isn’t about doing more.

It’s about doing less—more intentionally.

Less breath.
Less effort.
More awareness.

What the Body Reveals in Stillness

I was standing still this morning. I love doing this, and I practice it often. I get lost in it — standing, breathing, just resting in Mountain Pose.

I’m continually amazed by how much is revealed when I stop moving. How much I’m bracing, without even realizing it.

As I stand, I begin to feel how much tension is contorting me — in my torso, my legs, my shoulders, my neck. It’s not dramatic or obvious at first. It’s subtle. Layered. Quiet. And it makes me wonder: How long have I been ignoring this?

I’ve always known I carry tension. Pain. But for a long time, I resisted simply being here with it. I practice stillness in many ways, but something about standing reveals so much more. When I allow myself to pause, time seems to soften. My breathing lightens. My attention sharpens. I become deeply interested in sensation — every ripple, every pull, every holding pattern.

Standing still becomes anything but still — a complex story of the past woven into unconscious contractions, ebbing and flowing.

The Body Tells Its Story

As awareness deepens, I can feel layers of contraction spiraling through my body, subtly bending and twisting me into awkward shapes. When you pause long enough, you begin to sense that every tissue carries a story — a history written into muscle, fascia, breath, and bone.

This morning, my body began to draw forward and twist — a familiar cringing, protective shape. I noticed a leftward pull, a subtle leaning and rotation. I didn’t resist it. I didn’t try to correct it. I followed it with curiosity.

The pathway felt magnetic — like every fiber knew exactly how to take that shape. It was powerful. Natural.

And suddenly, I wasn’t just in my body.
I wasn’t in an accident or out of surgery.

I was back in the kitchen.

How Work Shapes the Body

I could feel it clearly — I was working at our family restaurant, Mr. Pizza in Rochester, Minnesota. I could sense everything: the sounds, the smells, the intensity, the pace. My body subtly adjusted as if reaching across the counter, pivoting, turning.

My mind whirled through memories of throwing pizzas into the oven, pivoting back and forth. Pivoting again. Cutting. Boxing. Moving.

Over and over.
The same pattern.
The same posture.
Year after year.

I had shaped my body to be efficient.

Leaning forward.
Twisting.
Reaching.
Reacting.

My nervous system learned every detail of that environment — how to move quickly, how to respond instantly, how to stay in overdrive. Add in past injuries, illness, stress, and exhaustion, and over time pain became normal. Burnout became normal. Drinking became normal — a way to cope with pain I didn’t yet understand.

I stretched. I exercised. I rested. I sought help.
But the pain always came back.

Because I was never addressing the pattern beneath it all.

Learning to Feel What Was Hidden

It wasn’t until I discovered somatic yoga and breathwork that I began to understand what was actually happening inside me. And even then, I had no idea how thick the layer of resistance was — the resistance that prevented my mind from seeing the tension that was holding me so tightly.

It’s so difficult to sense our own body. Profoundly difficult.

Somatic practice taught me something humbling:

I didn’t know myself nearly as well as I thought I did.

Six years later, I can honestly say something surprising — I feel like I know even less now. Not because I’ve gone backward, but because awareness has expanded. The deeper you look, the more complexity you discover.

Life is like that.

A leaf looks simple… until you study it.
An ant seems small… until you observe it closely.
Everything unravels into infinite detail.

Turning inward is no different.

The body is like that.
The breath is like that.
The mind is like that.

The more subtle the awareness, the more layers reveal themselves.

A Universe Within

That’s why Mountain Pose continues to feel so fresh and alive for me. The stiller I am — the longer I stay — the more truth reveals itself: there is an entire universe within.

And the more I unravel it, the better I feel — not because I’ve “fixed” anything, but because I’m getting out of the way… because I am finally listening.

There is always more to discover.
Always more to refine.
Always more to feel.

And instead of that being discouraging, I find it deeply exciting.

A Mirror for You

If you’ve ever felt stuck in one posture, one pattern, one way of holding yourself — physically or emotionally — your body may be telling a story too.

You don’t have to fix it.
You don’t have to stretch it away.
You don’t have to force change.

Sometimes, the most powerful thing you can do is pause… stand still… and listen.

We are not meant to break down as we age.
We are meant to refine, enhance, and deepen ourselves.

That is the heart of this work.
That is the dedication behind Pneuma Yoga.

Simple practices.
Honest awareness.
Turning inward.
Reshaping health and vitality — not by force, but by presence.

Sometimes, all it takes…
is standing still.

Ahimsa: My First Step into Yoga Philosophy

There is no yoga without nonviolence.

I stumbled into yoga almost by accident… or more accurately, by injury.
I tore my pectoral in a jiu-jitsu sparring match, and since I couldn’t lift weights anymore, I looked elsewhere. My earliest yoga “practice” came through infomercials and biceps—P90X with Tony Horton. That was my gateway into western yoga, and honestly, I loved it.

From there I dove deeper into YouTube flows, DVDs from the library, and random classes—still mostly focused on the physical: stretching, sweating, pushing myself. I had no idea yoga held anything deeper. I was barely scratching the surface.

Stumbling Toward Something More

Eventually I reached a point where I knew I needed something different. My health was falling apart. My nervous system was burned out. The restaurant job was crushing me. I felt stuck in a loop of illness, stress, and the terrifying sense that there was nowhere to go for real resolution.

Inside me, something was aching to come out. I knew it had to do with holistic health. I suspected yoga was involved somehow, but I didn’t yet understand the depth of yoga or how much wisdom it carries about the human mechanism. I remember wondering, Do I really want to teach yoga classes? What could possibly be so special about yoga?

Back then, I had no idea.

Stuck in Survival Mode

My life at that time felt like one long, stressed-out shutdown response.

I was working long hours in a chaotic restaurant environment. My body was in too much discomfort to keep going, yet I didn’t see a way out. Simply surviving each day was a battle. Running a business on top of that was another battle I had no capacity to fight.

I felt skill-less, empty, like I had nothing of value to offer the world. My health was declining and my sense of self collapsed with it. Shame, exhaustion, self-judgment—they were my constant companions.

I believed deeply that the body could heal itself, and I believed nutrition was the key. I followed what I thought was a “healthy” eating lifestyle to fix my gut pain. But nutrition is confusing, and everyone claims their way is the right way. I ate whole foods and followed paleo because people I trusted told me it was the answer.

Still, my body kept failing.

Later, Ayurveda would completely transform my understanding of food, digestion, and what “healthy” actually means—but that wisdom came much later. At the time, all I knew was this:

I was not okay. And I couldn’t fix it with willpower alone.

My First Real Step Into Yoga

When I eventually enrolled in a yoga therapy program—right at the start of COVID, entirely over Zoom—I was completely ungroomed as a yogi. I knew nothing except poses. Yet there I was: signed up for a 1,000-hour training, committed to seeing it through.

That program cracked something open in me.

I began to actually study yoga—not just the shapes, but the philosophy. The depth of yoga was overwhelming at first. The sages who shaped this science were some of the most intelligent minds to ever live. Their teachings were dense, intricate, and profound. Hard to grasp at first… but captivating.

Slowly, the philosophy began to seep into me.
And what hit me the hardest was Ahimsa.

Ahimsa: The Foundation of Yoga

The first concept I truly met was Ahimsa—nonviolence.
It is the very first yama, the first branch of the first limb.
It is literally the beginning of yoga.

At first it seemed simple: Don’t be violent.
I wasn’t hitting anyone. I didn’t think of myself as harmful. I had no awareness of the subtle ways I punished myself, the frustration simmering inside me, the harshness I directed inward. So I thought:

“Okay, cool—what’s next?”

But as I sat with Ahimsa, something shifted.

I began to hear the violence that lived inside me.

Seeing My Own Violence

As I reflected on Ahimsa, I saw how deeply I was harming myself:

• the way I talked to myself

• the shame and self-blame

• the comparisons and judgments

• the constant inner criticism

• the pushing past my limits

• the overworking, the drinking, the refusal to rest

I realized that the deepest violence in my life wasn’t external.
It was internal.

Yoga teaches pratipaksha bhavana—cultivating the opposite.
When negative or harmful thoughts arise, we consciously shift toward their opposite: thoughts that are true, kind, supportive, aligned.

The mind is incredibly powerful.
It shapes our experience of reality.
It colors everything we perceive.
It can create us or destroy us.

If we repeat violent stories inside our mind, the body will live inside that violence.

Learning Ahimsa meant finally seeing this clearly—
and then slowly choosing a different direction.

Creating a Nonviolent Inner Environment

If healing is the goal, we must build an inner world that supports healing.

The body is unbelievably intelligent and wants to move toward balance.
But it cannot heal if the mind is constantly attacking it.

Ahimsa is not just “be kind.”
It is a radical commitment to:

• dropping shame and self-punishment

• interrupting cycles of judgment and comparison

• noticing where we are sharp, cruel, or impatient

• choosing thoughts and actions that support life, not harm it

Yogi Swami Rama said:
“Love all and exclude none.”

That includes ourselves.

If we want true health, we must become love within—not as sentimentality but as alignment with our true nature.

Violence is everywhere in the world. But it doesn’t have to live in us.

Ahimsa in Practice: Food, Animals, and Daily Life

For me, Ahimsa showed up in a clear and unexpected way: food.
I’ve been vegetarian or plant-based for years, but through Ahimsa, that choice deepened. It helped me see the subtle violence not only toward animals, but toward my own body and the earth.

Ahimsa became a practice of:

• nonviolence toward my body

• nonviolence toward other beings

• nonviolence toward the planet

And no, this doesn’t mean perfection.
Negativity still arises. Old patterns still surface. The mind still reacts.

But the practice becomes:

Notice. Breathe. Choose differently.

We can learn to stay grounded enough inside that we are not so easily pulled into reactive violence—whether in thought, word, or action.

No Yoga Without Ahimsa

Yoga is not about flexibility or strength.
It is about creating a mind and heart that can hold life without causing harm.

Ahimsa is the very beginning.
It is the root.
The ground of yoga.

Without nonviolence, there is no yoga—only performance, ego, or spiritual decoration.

Ahimsa reminds me:

• to speak more gently to myself

• to give my body time and space to heal

• to step out of self-destruction

• to move through the world with a little more care

If you want to explore your truest health, start here.
Notice where violence lives in your thoughts, your habits, your choices—then cultivate the opposite, little by little.

Healing is not just physical.
It is mental, emotional, and energetic.

Create a nonviolent inner environment, and the body will know what to do.